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She bought her own one way ticket out but blames DH and me...

overit4tenyrs's picture

So I get home from work and apparently SD had already started in with DH. She dropped her cell phone in a puddle after school and demanded DH take her to purchase another one immediately. He told her to just let it dry out and it will work again. She refused and demanded that he take her to the store to get new one again. DH stood his ground and said no. SD throws a hissy fit. Then she says she is moving out with MIL but will sleep at a friends house during the week to go to school. So DH tells her she has until such and such date to get out. She tells us she doesnt know what she is gonna do with her stuff. I told her she wasn't leaving her stuff at our house thinking she could come and go as she pleased. I demanded the keys when she left and told her we will be changing the security code on the alarm as well. So she doesnt get any brilliant ideas of coming back and taking our stuff.

Then she goes to her room and starts calling BM and MIL, saying we are kicking her out for no reason. Of course BM and MIL start calling the house wanting to know whats going on. Anyhow, turns out she tells BM that DH is kicking her out just because he is upset about not having a job. REALLY??? So it has nothing to do with SD telling us to screw off, or the disrespect, or the sense of entitlement, or the lying...etc. SD still refuses to take responsibility for HER actions.

I am trying to support DH. I keep telling him he is a good father and has done the best he can. I know that he is stressed to the max, just like I am. Once SD leaves and the chaos is gone I am hoping to find some peace.

UNBELIEVABLE!!!

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Kb3Hooah's picture

Of course she blames you and DH, she isn't responsible or mature enough to take accountability for her own actions. The worst thing you can do for yourself and for your marriage is allow her immaturity to get the best of you.

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Purpleflower09's picture

Good for you guys to stand your ground and enforce the law on this child. And stick to it...if you take her back in..she will have you both over a barrel knowing that you will cave every time.

" Faith is a bird that feels dawn breaking and sings while it's still dark"-R.Tagore