So now SD NEEDS me for something...
My FIL called the house today to ask DH to send over copies of tax returns so SD could fill out her FAFSA for college. DH tells him he will talk to me when I get home and then fax them over.
OMG..what the hell what DH thinking???? I told him he was nuts and that there was no way SD was being given social security numbers and personal information like my salary HELLO??? Then DH was backpeddling and telling me he didn't think about it like that. So once again I will be the evil bitch to his family because I don't want some lying manipulative brat to have access to my entire life...much less who she would share the info with like BM.
The SD's think they can treat us like shit...walk out of our homes and then oh by the way could you help me out? NO WAY! I'M DONE! If poor little SD needs money for college..not my problem!!!!
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your DH can get her pin
your DH can get her pin number and fill that information out on line himself without ever giving it to her
yup--they do require she
yup--they do require she fill it out (college) but he can do it himself
Do they really need our
Do they really need our financial info as stepmoms? We're getting ready to work on that and I was wondering about that... I don't really want to be financially at risk if SD flakes out...
"I HAD to pick the road less traveled..."
you are not held responsible
you are not held responsible for anything. she needs the info for school, you fill it out yourself--she won't see it.
They use this info to decide how much or whether she gets any goverment grants/assistant. She has to fill one out every year but you only have to fill it out once.
If she is denied aid then they will offer her loan money--it is her debt ONLY.
If that loan is not enough she would ask you for a Parent Plus loan--were you would be responsible. Just tell her no if you don't want to take a loan out. Then she will have to get a job or take less classes.