I have walked out of ex fiancés life who I l really love but had to let go of because he would often name calling me and belittle me whenever he was angry. I cried almost daily and he calmly just watched me. His two daughters also took a toll on me (16,14) because of how bad of an influence they were to mine. The last argument we had was three days ago when he called me crazy and a dumbass because I pointed out that he wasn't spending much time with our daughter so he had said he was done, got whatever he had and left so he's been blocked since, I made my decision to take things legally because in my head I felt he'll never change. Even though he's blocked in my emails I can see his messages in my spam folder begging me to please call him- he even had his oldest message me. A part of me feels bad but 80% of me feels like it's time to let go and keep ignoring him. My therapist told me (he affected me bad since I was pregnant) because of my safety I don't have to have any contact with him so Tuesday morning I'm going to court with all texts and emails etc from him. He even came looking for me so I took the kids to their room, turned off the lights and stayed quiet. He was just yelling "babe" and knocking. Am I being cruel like taking it too far?? The reason I'm doing this mostly is because I don't trust him taking our newborn with him anywhere or his environment. He's never ever begged me like this.