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Physics guy's picture

Submitted by Physics guy on Fri, 01/18/2019 - 12:22pm

I am relatively new here and I get the sense that there are many stepmoms here with their unique problems bealing with DHs, skids and BMs.  As a reluctant stepdad with a 19y/o SS living under my roof, I was wondering if there were any other stepdads here and how they deal with DW, Biological fathers, financial strain, discipline, etc?  I am in no way trying to be sexist.  I was looking for a male perspective for my situation.

 

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lieutenant_dad's picture

Submitted by lieutenant_dad on Fri, 01/18/2019 - 12:26pm

Major Blunder and Rags are the only two I know who post regularly, and MB is out for the foreseeable future due to medical issues.

StepUltimate's picture

Submitted by StepUltimate on Fri, 01/18/2019 - 6:51pm

Harry is also a great regular; always calls it like he sees it. 

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Submitted by morrginme on Fri, 01/18/2019 - 1:33pm

I'm not sure how active the group is but I saw in the Forums a group for stepdads to post questions.

SonOfABrisketMaker's picture

Submitted by SonOfABrisketMaker on Fri, 01/18/2019 - 7:27pm

But I can tell you that my DH and I recently invited my BS18 to move the heck out if he wasnt going to do anything at all to improve his life or move forward as an adult. It was insulting to my husband to ask him to help support another adult male. BS18 chose moving out rather than free room, board and school but with the stipulation that he be grateful. *shrug* I love my son but I will not let a grown ass man take advantage of the privileges in my home.