My DH only sees his son every other weekend. He is supposed to see SS on certain holidays from 3:30pm until 8:00am. Memorial day he wasn't able to get SS because BM had plans. We were on vacation this weekend returning today. BM knew this and would only allow DH to see son from 10am- 6pm. Instead of us leaving early he told BM he wanted to stick to the court order in divorce papers. She said no she has to do what is best for son. We are trying to figure out what course of action to take, starting with a consultation hopefully this week. DH didn't have a lawyer in divorce just went with the papers that were drawn up. Any suggestions?

BM is remarried pregnant with third child. She moved out of TN about thirty miles or so but is currently on bedrest so staying with her mom in Tn driving SS to Alabama and back each day. BM husband is going to school in GA and comes home not even every weekend. Two of the children are not DH but she gave the middle one our last name and is going to give the third baby our last name. Can we stop that? What kind of person does this? DH and I were recently married in April. He used to see SS about half of the month and some throughout the week after she moved to AL but now it has stopped basically because she was upset that I watched SS before we were married for two hours on DH weekend and that was selfish of him.

Is there any hope of getting more time with SS? Any help would be greatly appreciated.