I've been an SM for a little over 4 years, now. Things are not as bad as they were in the beginning but they could certainly stand to better...lol! I have 3 Bio's and 2 SKIDS, SS-10, and SD-5. BM is a horrible person and a horrible mother, unfortunately. DH is guilty, guilty, guilty and therefore makes bad decisions, at times, regarding SKIDS. DH and I both have a good relationship with my EX and his fiance, they even drove an hour and a half to lend their support when my Dad passed last year. It meant a lot. There has been bad blood between BM and I since the beginning and I don't expect that to change because of the kind of person that she is, however, I have put my foot down, established general guidelines and keep my distance.

I am a really nice person, very easy-going and easy to get along with at most times. Please note my avatar!

I found this site and hoped that I would be able to express my deepest feelings, hash out my problems and receive advice from seasoned vets. I hope that I will also be able to positively impact someone's life and maybe help one or another through a tough time.

I just wanted to formally introduce myself.