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SD14 stole my phone

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Submitted by porcelian-doll on Sat, 06/29/2013 - 3:08pm

I knew her nice streak was to good to be true. I couldn't find my phone for a whole day. It turns up under SD14s mattress. She stole it and used it to text her friends. DH and BM are at a lost at what to do with her. She gets grounded but she keeps acting out and she has a court date coming up for her arrest. she just won't even try to learn from her mistakes. I thought that after getting caught going down on her BF at the park she would break up with him. But from the look of the explicit text I read they are still together. I kind of hope she gets sentenced to a few days in juvi or some community service and I hope she learns from it. DH wants to put her in therapy but BM doesn't think she needs it. I just don't get her.

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Submitted by somedevilishbeauty on Sat, 06/29/2013 - 3:28pm

if she stole your phone tell her youll call the cops on her for it. maybe the thought of juvie would give her a wake up call.

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Submitted by porcelian-doll on Sat, 06/29/2013 - 3:49pm

DH found the phone and did all the yelling. I started packing my bags to go to my mom's house but DH begged me not to go.

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Submitted by somedevilishbeauty on Sat, 06/29/2013 - 4:11pm

if you would have left SD would have seen it as she wins!!! I wold have packed up SD's stuff

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Submitted by Bossladee on Sat, 06/29/2013 - 4:32pm

I am new here and don't know the whole story behind your sd but sheesh that's ballsy!! She went down on her bf in public? At 14?!? Wow! And she straight up stole your phone? I think therapy is a great idea, but don't know if it would actually help her...some people have true character flaws, period. At least if your DH put her in therapy he could feel like at least he TRIED, even if it didn't work. And I DEFINETLY hope she gets some serious consequences from her court date, juvie with forced therapy and community service after that!!

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Submitted by oldone on Sat, 06/29/2013 - 5:28pm

Your SD is a total waste of space. I am sorry that she is still of an age that you have to pay attention to her. Hopefully she will get locked up soon.

She needs to be erased from your life. Please do not ever let her around your child to be.

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Submitted by oneoffour on Sat, 06/29/2013 - 6:14pm

Well ... I think she is allowed to get away with stuff. She has no control because she is precious and no one EVER disciplines her.

Although... you could tell her that as the texts are on YOUR phone you may just email the texts to all her friends and teachers. Then email them to her judge.
THEN tell her that as she obviously is still seeing this guy you are inviting him to a family dinner 2x a week. And the invitation is coming from you and not her so he may well turn up when she isn't even there.
And while she is throwing a fit you can tell her that her name calling and all thaty crap means NOTHING because SHE will end up in jail not you.
Take the door off her room.