All Quiet On The NC Front
It has been a quiet week. No nastiness from BM this week (yet). After two weeks of nastigrams, headaches, ugliness, it is nice. Two weeks ago got SD16's first report card. Not great, but passing. Of course, EVERY bad grade, is DH fault!!!
DH doesn't get SD enough tutoring (she goes 3-4x week right now for various classes), DH doesn't make SD study, SD has terrible study habits thanks to DH, DH makes terrible judgement call when SD cut self, DH lies, DH is brainwashing SD, etc, etc, etc....What a load of crock
Obvious that she is wanting to take to court again, as she copies her Atty in on all these accusations. We just finished court less than 3mos ago, the order just finalized 1mo ago. BM had her chance to prove she could help SD end of last school year. SD fails Spanish so bad in 1 quarter, that she failed for the whole year (prev got b's and c's) she goes from a solid B in English to a D. If SD continued to live with mom, I know, myDH knows, and her counselor agrees, SD would have dropped out of HS and probably be Preggers, since BM lets her do whatever she wants, as long as they are friends.
I pray the peace will last for a little while. I pray her attorney told her to shut up, as her threats and accusations were so ugly and non-productive to help SD--just an attack on DH. I pray that she won't try and take as to court. Poor SD has been in turmoil for past 3 years since mom started first litigation (this summer was the 2nd).
Have a great day all
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'DH doesn't get SD enough
'DH doesn't get SD enough tutoring (she goes 3-4x week right now for various classes), DH doesn't make SD study, SD has terrible study habits thanks to DH, DH makes terrible judgement call when SD cut self, DH lies, DH is brainwashing SD, etc, etc, etc....'
What about personal accountability? At 16, she knows that she needs to study in order to 'make the grade'. If SD doesn't realize that by now, BM and SD have even BIGGER problems.
You are right. BM has no
You are right. BM has no accountability---never accept when she is wrong or that things are her fault (in fact, when lost CS case, she blamed her atty rather than face fact that we are just the better place for SD to be right now). It has been a battle w/SD daily to get her to be accountable. Latest is that she has ADHD so that is why she is not doing well in school. PLEASE---been tested twice, once when 6 and once two years ago had a full psych assessment, no teachers have EVER considered this with her, and they see it all the time. Just an excuse.