Yes I am a preacher for real and I am have such a hard time with my teenage step kids I just want to pull out all my hair and screem untill I am horse. I love them like they where my own but if they where mind they sure wouldn't talk to me the way these two do. If they where mind they would be laing on the floor for talking to me that way. My 13 year old step daughter come home with an attude from hell everyday from school and it has gotten to the point where her voice just sets me on edge. My step son has just moved back in with us and I am homeschooling him because if I don't he is going to be kicked out of school and go to jail because he is violent. The bio mom is a paranoid skitso and gives the kids anything they want because she is affaid they will hate her and won't be her friend and dad just yells at me. For yelling at them.I am so tired of trying to be the one to fix it all the time with no help.and believe me I have tried I even went so far asx to let the bio momcome and stay with us over the hollidays to teach her how to take care of HER kids. Now I find myself sreeming and cussing at the kids like they are adults because I can not handel it anymone and I have left twice and moved out because of my step daughters lies. I am living with them now but I feel myself wanting to leave again. I just want the madness to stop. Can anyone help me understand what I. Need to do to fix this. I am so sick of the disrespect and and selfishness in this family. :sick: