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Submitted by priness80 on Sun, 11/07/2010 - 4:08pm

well on monday i flew to italy and on wendsday i went into early labor at 37 weeks pregnant ang i was just okayed to take my twins home this morning my new little boy and girl " Isabella and william" Smile but SS4 has been being a brat sense we were in the hospital my DH asked him if he wanted told see his new siblings and he woulnt leave the waiting room he even threw a fit and threw himself o the floor and had to be dragged in he calls them ugly and stupid and he das been throwing horrible fits for the past three days today i asked if he wanted to hold william bottle and he spit in my baby's face we tried hitting time outs and nothing wors he just wont listen i need help

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Submitted by GoodbyeNormaJean on Sun, 11/07/2010 - 4:23pm

Sounds like somebody's doing everything right to get on the naughty list this year. I hope your DH knows where to get some coal for that kid's stocking.

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Submitted by RaeRae on Sun, 11/07/2010 - 4:23pm

Jealousy is expected.... but the boy spit in your newborn's face?? Your DH needs to do something about his kid. I know my kids would never spit again if they did such a thing.

Congrats on the twins, and good luck with everything!

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Submitted by priness80 on Sun, 11/07/2010 - 4:28pm

i didnt expect to go into labor so early i just flew down to be close to family and yeah DH has tried hitting and punishing but he wont listen im feeding my little girl as i type this site really helps me feel a little calmer

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Mon, 11/08/2010 - 7:00am

Jealousy is perfectly normal in this situation. However, spitting at someone isn't. Your DH needs to let SS know that spitting isn't acceptable.

He could also be hearing a lot of negative stuff from BM. 4-year-olds really don't know how to handle their feelings so they act out. DH needs to both show and tell him how to handle his feelings appropriately and let him know through words & actions that you both love him very much and always will. Let him come to the babies. Let him know that the babies love him and really want to meet him.

Congratulations on your babies Smile