This past fall the ex called and wanted to talk to me in person so we met in a public location to "talk" Well he was angry about BF punishing our youngest and he began screaming at me in the parking lot telling me that he was not going to return my boys and all the usually stuff they tend too threaten. Needless to say someone heard him and called the police ( i could have crawled under the car of embarssement when 4 yes 4 police crusiers pulled into the paking lot) Any way after all the commotion and letting them know that I was ok and all was taken care of I told them that I did not want to file charges against him (they still filled out a report to keep on file and if it happened again it would not be pleasant for him)
OK now that you are a little updated on that... dropped youngest off at tutoring ran a couple of errands and returned to Sylvan pulled in and yippee the ex is there. He walks over to my truck to talk to the oldesst and that is fine I just sit there and don't say anything Until he begins talking about baseball practice so I pipe in and ask him when he is going to be able to get the bat bag to me (he still had it from last year) he informed me that he would be at practice on Monday he is helping coach(yippee I will never know what is going on since the coach seems to think he doesn't have to tell me anything he just expects the ex to tell me that is funny he doesn't tell me crap) anyway in the conversation I ask if he isn't going to return the bag then can I at least have my glove back. Needless to say for some reason he became loud and rude so I just looked at him and told him to get the hell away from my truck he informed me I wasn't going to talk to him like that so I just repeated get the F*** away from my truck at this point he informed me that he is documenting all of this. i told him all of what that you are interfering with MY time with the boys or how about documenting the fact that he is suppose to get them 2 evenings a week and hasn't done that since my work schedule changed last July (I don't currently work evenings so he no longer picks them up at the sitter) Needless to say my fiance' pulled in and he shut right up and walked away. Good thing I guess he was begining to get a little loud it was just a matter of time before someone called the police again.

Who the hell does he think he is? He is no longer my boss and has no business trying to tell me what to do. Document what? I did nothing wrong. I told him to get away from MY truck. Needless to say fiance' was not happy and wanted to have a few words with him but refranined from it. He maintains control very well because he never confronts him he says he is just waiting for the ex to screw up and say something in front of him or even better to him.

Thanks for letting me vent again