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Submitted by Pure Paradise on Thu, 07/17/2014 - 1:30pm

Last weekend was one that we have the skid til sunday? I thought I am going to really try to just get along. We had dinner walked to the store for slushies then we were having a fire in the pit in the backyard so the kids (his son and my daughter) could make smores. Sounds good right? I put my son who is 5 and a half months in the stroller and covered him with a bug net. The skid started pulling sticks that were burning out of the fire. I said please leave the sticks in the fire. I repeated and he completely ignored me. The I grabbed the stroller and got my son out of there. I said something like how it was unfair that I had to take the baby in the house because someone doesn't listen. Then my BF said something sarcastic about letting me know when he is done playing in the fire. It's been a week and I am still fuming. Then he wonders why when he is stuck I won't babysit. He will be here today at 4. FML

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 07/17/2014 - 1:36pm

So your BF just sat there and observed while his kid pulled burning sticks out of the fire??? does he need glasses, or perhaps a set of balls

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Submitted by ItHasGottenBetter on Thu, 07/17/2014 - 1:50pm

Yea I agree. The kid will get burned eventually and then he will learn to not play with fire.

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 07/17/2014 - 2:19pm

^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^ But there ARE no boundaries for this guy's ferals. They could have set the baby's stroller on fire and he probably would have been good with it.

Yep this describes Chef Boyardumb to a tee when his heathens were coming over. They would play with power tools, swing hammers into the walls, spray paint the house siding, you name it and Chef would pretend or be oblivious with that "they're JUST KIDS" crap!

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 07/17/2014 - 2:31pm

Careful, your BM troll is showing.

Apparently you aren't familiar with guilty daddy syndrome.

"Oh, they were just playing!"

I heard this after skids almost shot themselves in the face with a BB Gun
After they started to spray paint my car and house
After they were swinging a hammer into the wall

He WOULD make excuses if they set the house on fire.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 07/17/2014 - 2:35pm

If the kid wasn't putting baby in danger then there was no reason for her to go in the house.

I don't even think that is the point. To me it's not the stick in the fire, it's the fact that poster asked skid to stop with the sticks. Skid continued, BF said and did NOTHING, so poster left. Then BF makes snarky remark, thus aligning himself with skid. No. just no. That is the set up right there for skid to disrespect GF from here on out, because Daddy won't do anything about it.

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Submitted by Pure Paradise on Sun, 07/20/2014 - 2:00pm

Why do kids need to play with fire? The way the backyard is set up, he was close enough to my baby to scare me. I am very protective but if he did get burned and threw the stick is it worth risking my baby having burns for the rest of his life?

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Submitted by Pure Paradise on Sun, 07/20/2014 - 2:00pm

Why do kids need to play with fire? The way the backyard is set up, he was close enough to my baby to scare me. I am very protective but if he did get burned and threw the stick is it worth risking my baby having burns for the rest of his life?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 07/17/2014 - 2:49pm

Are you mad that SS didnt listen to you?

Are you mad at how your DH acted like you were over reacting?

Were you fearful that something was going to happen to your baby?