Let me first start with.. I'm happy ST is back!

Now for the bullshit.

I have taken care of SD for the last 5 years. Including during his and her parenting days. While they worked or had better thing to do. I did the doctor appointments, I did everything for this child. I even homeschooled.

Taking care of SD while I watched my own two small children and being pregnant and having a chronic disease.

I haven't worked in 5 years all I have done is take care of SD and My own children. Well someone I know owns a company and asked if I could help out for a day. I was thrilled, for one I was excited about helping a friend and getting to do something.
So Tuesdays are BM's parenting day, and hubby texted her telling her I could not watch SD for her. ( I have always watched SD while BM did god knows what untill like 5 o clock). Anyways BM texts back she has PLANS. What the hell?
So I didnt get to go out nope instead I got to babysit.

So we go to visit my family and SD7 tells my mother ( SD's only grandparents who she sees and have done everything for her) Go to hell! :jawdrop:

Then SD goes on to tell my husband later she plans on throwing our new baby who is due in sept in the trash can!

Ok we went to a family dinner and SD gets us kicked out of a resturant! She was climbing over bathroom stalls standing on the toilet paper holder jumping over stalls. Like a monkey or something!!!!!!

Her behavior gets worse and worse and worse from that point. She was saying horrible stuff about her mothers family, drawing all over my kids stuff with a permanent marker. I cant even explain everything that happened.

SD later tells us " my mom told me to act bad so I can live with her all the time"

Wow, dont know what to think now! Anyways hubby tells BM she has to come get SD and take care of her.They meet to exchange SD, Hubby tells BM she is grounded for her behavior.

While we hopped she kept SD grounded I really doubt it. The last time SD was grounded, BM let SD watch TV, go to a park to play, and have a friend over. The time before that BM took her camping and let her play the whole freaking time!

BM is thousands of dollars behind in CS, has not been helping with SD's homeschooling costs.

I NEED ADVICE, WHAT DO I DO??? I know this blog is jumbled but I have been waiting to talk to ALL OF YOU, since ST went down.

Friends and People have told me dont ever watch SD again. I have even had people tell me dont allow her in my house. However these people dont live in the STEPWORLD THAT WE DO!

So now what? What happens now?