Ok, I'm not totally positive, but I'm pretty sure SD14 and her friend that we let her have over to spend the night helped themselves to some alcoholic drinks last night after DH and I went to bed. I woke up this morning and there was a bottle of Beck's Ice in the glass bin that I KNOW was not drank by DH or myself. There were also some beer bottles in there that I am pretty sure are not from either of us, either. I'm not real sure how to approach this. DH is at work all day today, so I am here alone to deal with this. Do I let it go until he gets home? Do I go ahead and confront SD14 about it? I am so sick of her lying and deceiving and manipulating ways. We can't seem to go a week without something happening. Is she deliberately doing things that she knows will get her in trouble? She shouldn't be reaching out for attention, she gets plenty. AND, yet again, it looks like she has found a way to turn someone else's special day into being all about her. Today is my baby girl's 3rd birthday, but it looks like we will be focusing on SD14 and all her Fing issues today instead of celebrating her little sister's birthday. She did something similar on Mother's Day, too. We ended up dealing with her and her breakdown instead of spending a happy day as a family. I know this is awful of me, but I just REALLY wish that she would decide to go live with BM for the summer and the rest of high school. I am so tired of putting up with her insistant drama and crap. Does she think we are stupid and won't notice that some of the drinks from the fridge are missing? Does she really think that if we figure it out we'll just let her get away with it? How many times is it going to take for her to get it through her head that she needs to stop doing things she knows she is not supposed to and then try and hide it and lie about it? I am sick of sounding like a broken record and having the same discussion with her every week. I am really ready to go to some extremes to drive the point home.