It's nice to vent without getting into a fight with my hubby. The last 5 years of my life have been hard! But in sure everyone had had it hard with their sk too! I met my hubby when sd was 9 ish and it's been hard ever since. Her bm has always tried to and has been a pain and a strain on our relationship. They dated when they were young and had been together for years!! Ok not my problem right? Wrong!!! For every family holiday I've not been allowed for the first 3 years because it was too uncomfortable for her to be in the same room as me. One of those women who does what she can to stay close with my husbands family!! It's ridiculous, in my opinion cut the cord ASAP after divorce! I did it's nice no drama!! Anyway it was wowing to have a meeting with her after my hubby an I broke up because her daughter didn't and still doesn't like me!! I've dealt with them as well as I could but it's just draining!! My sd is spoiled by everyone!! And my husband had always treated the kids differently which of course drives me insane and I can't stand my sd for it. She milks it like it's going out of style and I know my kids pay for it. It has been dramatic or my kids and I. Bm for some reason has to know everything going on!! From our schedule when sd is here to what we eat and I mean everything!! She doesn't really ask my hubby cause I stopped that quickly. But my sd still just tells her. Am I just overreacting or is there something wrong here?? Hubby and I have even broken up over this twice during both of our pregnancies. I can't get over what was said and done! Should I? Idk it's really hard and depressing when she's here bit to mention stressful. I'm walking On eggshells the whole time. Any advise or me ? Please