The last time SO talked to his two oldest daughters, they both told him that he was dead to them. After all the conversation he had with BM (via text) Saturday regarding therapy (which he refuses), it got pretty ugly. Of course, BM started attacking me, and telling him he had chose my children and me over his own flesh and blood.

Sunday, SD21 texted SO from her mother's phone (since he turned her cell phone off and BM got her a new one, she doesn't want daddy having her new number), underneath that whole exchange (no doubt BM said, look here at what your daddy said to me, boohoo), "We just want to spend more time with you, but you've turned your back on us."

How many times can you tell your Dad that he's "dead" to you, or tell him to go efff himself and think that doesn't HURT him? You want to spend time with Daddy? No, all you want is to spend Daddy's money.

How about YOU go F*** YOURSELF, SD??? And your precious sister, 16, can follow your lead just like she always does.

Sorry, had to vent.