Just an update on a forum topic I recently posted:

http://www.steptalk.org/node/177122

SO met with BM, and her new hubby to discuss SD16. They decided that SO would go to BM's house Tuesday night and they would all sit down and talk with SD16. It was also decided that BM would tell her that if BF came to the house, he would be arrested for trespassing. AND that SD16 would NOT be left at home alone. If BM and stepdad were not going to be home, she would stay with one of her grandparents (both sets live less than a mile from her, and are retired.)

Well, the weather forecast was calling for bad weather on Tuesday, so all of the schools shut down. BM went to work on Tuesday. Then proceeded to text SO all day. "I'm sure D16 won't be home when I get there." "She said she went to a friend's house." "She's refusing to come home." "She won't answer the phone." "Call the cops."

Needless to say, the Tuesday night sit-down didn't happen.

The bad weather started coming in Tuesday afternoon, schools were cancelled on Wednesday, and BM's office was also closed.

And guess who came to visit and hang out with SD16 yesterday?

Yup.....the felonious BF.

Good job, BM.

And SO, I'm sorry to say, but your opinion, your wishes, and your attempt at discipline don't mean $HiT!