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Sexybaby's picture

Well it turns out the BM is in the hospital, my DH found out by his work. My DH's work called him because BM looked up the number in the phone book then called my DH's work to get a hold of my DH because BM didn't have my DH's cell number in her purse and BM was sooo sick and in a lot of pain to call my DH on Sunday. Anyways BM was asking for help with SS5 to take him to school but DH goes into work at 6am so he can't take SS5. DH asked where is SS5 now BM said with her parents. I suggested to withdrawal SS5 from school so it does not count against him for missing three days this week and put SS5 our school district so I can take him to school till BM gets well enough to take of SS5 and SS5's brother. BM got upset and said no I'll just have my sister to take care of them when I get home from the hospital. My DH was like why call me when you want me to help then say no, why go through all that trouble to her a hold of me when you don't want my help. BM sounded like she was crying or sad like she wanted my DH to care about her that she was in the hospital. DH didn't say anything heart warming to BM during the call just wanted to know where SS5 was and to take care of SS5 while BM was in the hospital. DH does not care about BM like she wants him too, oh yeah she has BF/fiance to care about her not my DH.

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Disneyfan's picture

Maybe BM thought he could adjust his work schedule to get his soon to school.

Having a 5 year old move from school to school is not a good idea.

That plan just takes into account what works best for the adults, not the child.

RaeRae's picture

Her parents can't take the child to school?

Your story reminds me of last winter, when BM caught a bad cold, went to the hospital and texted DH multiple times from the hospital about how she has an 'upper respiratory infection', and then shows up at our freakin door, unannounced, "to bring SD her teddy". Bullfuckingshit. The woman would not even bring my SS's shoes to him for school, when she didn't return them to us after visitation. Her whole thing was to get sympathy from DH (she had a friend bring her here, not her husband).

DH was sitting at the table eating, turned to see who was at the door, and turned back to his food. When BM kept SD at the door, DH said for SD to come in and shut the door. Then he said she should not have come around the kids being so sick and all. Which, everyone did end up getting sick from her, starting with the kids she was hugging and salivating over at the front door.

She knows now not to show up at our door unannounced.

Sexybaby's picture

No DH can't and BM knows that. BM just makes things more difficult for my DH all the time. That's how BM is. BM plays the card I'm a poor single mom boo hoo

Sexybaby's picture

No BM's parents live out of town about an hour away. That's why they can't but BM got her sister to stay with her and help her out.

Sexybaby's picture

Yeah that's what we said. Why call when you are not going to receive help from DH, it was a pointless call. I think BM wanted my DH to feel sorry for and care about BM that BM was in the hospital and in a lot of pain and needed surgery. But that's my opinion.