We had a small birthday party at mine and DH's apartment. Anyways we got him some toys and I asked DH if the toys were going to stay here or is he going to take them to BM's apartment. DH said they are going to stay here I said okay. Then it was time to leave and take him back DH told my SS5 that the toys are going to stay here. Then SS5 got upset and started crying about leaving the toys here at DH'S apartment. SS5 kept fake crying about the damn toys and DH said just let him take it it's his birthday. Then blames me for SS5 not wanting to be here with DH because I'm mean to SS5. All because I don't give into that crap, my older bio boys know better and my DD7months soon will also. Then I said that both of you(DH&BM)are raising a spoiled brat, and all I'm trying to do is help DH put his foot down on SS5. This is an on going fighting battle every time SS5 comes to visit, I'm tired of letting SS5 rule my house. I do give him rules and SS5 listens to me and behave but DH does not follow through with them on my SS5 just on my bio boys. It feels like DH puts my SS5 on a pedal stool above me when he is here.