Hi I am a stepmother to 3 boys to one BM and a girl to another BM. None of which live with us but come to stay every second weekend. Now me and my partner are pregnant and due New Years Eve! I wonder if he will leave me too. He dosnt let me talk to either BM. He only told me aout the daughter about 7 months ago when i was already pregnant. I have welcomed all of the children into my life and have good relationships with all the children.
Lately if i talk to my partner about any of the children it ends up in a fight. I find that whenever we have the children he seems to get drunk and i am left to look after them and drive them places. I am finding it hard to cope with the idea of looking after all the kids while going into labour and over the most stressful christmas period. I dont feel like i signed up for this much responsibility. PLEASE HELP