Apparently she can't read, has the memory of a gold fish and doesn't understand the meaning of divorce.

She called DH yesterday to tell him that equipment pick up for ss8's football at 9 am at the high school, which DH already knew but it wasn't for yesterday like BM implied it was Saturday. Read your emails all the way BM!

Then she asked about ss8's psychology testing Monday. DH tells her that he is going and she got all excited an asked if they could carpool (it about an hour away). DH says no, 'sister' an I will drive ourselves. She instantly got pissy so DH asked if her husband was going and BM said no. DH reminded her that they said step parents should come if they are invoiced with the child, as a SAHM they requested I come. The information packets we got where sent with both names on it, you know mr and mrs DH/ mr and mrs BM. I also know for a fact that he told her when he made the appointment that I was going an she said ok. Then he tells her that we want our own car since there is such a gap between the appointments, so we can run around some. She had no clue what he was talking about. It clear says on the first page of the packet we got that there are two segments the first in the morning is an interview then 5 hours later we get the results.

When DH got home and told me all this I had him call her back and explain to her on the packet she got when it says currently home info and asked for father she has to put her husband and mark step, then trough the rest of the questions when is asks about father it mean her hubby unless it asks about biological father specifically, which is does on a few. She had no clue and said it was good we told her or she would have done it wrong. Hello there is a reason we both got packets! Ss8 has 2 houses and 2 families!

Anyway I think we got her sorted. But is it bad that I just want to lay into her about wanting to spend time alone with MY husband? I probably won't say anything but its creepy that she was so excited and wanted to car pool then so sad when she couldn't. Your divorced! You don't get to play happy family with DH any more.