Yeah had one of those yesterday. BM dropped Skids off and dispite my suggestion (and yours) FDH wanted to tell her in person that he found out that she lied to him about the doc appt last week. I said to just txt her. Any way this is how the conversation went - no joking.

They started out normal - talked about school stuff and exchanged bags. Everything seemed normal...

FDH: "I talked to the doc office."

BM: "My uncle died."

FDH: "uh?" (BM looks like she is about to cry now)

BM: "Yeah, I don;t know when the funeral is but I may need you to watch the boys."

FDH: "okay?"

And then BM got in her van and left. It's weird because she was dropping sKids off to start our week - she doesn't get them back until Sunday. Maybe it's different in her family but usually when some one dies they have the funeral within a week. But whatever, I told FDH that when/if she calls him to set it up the only thing that he needs to know is if/when she needs us to watch the boys and for how long. We don't need any info about her Uncle as mean as it sounds, we are sorry he dies but it's none of our business, FDH is no longer a member of that family.

And I can only hope that she wouldn't lie about something like that.