DH asked me to take Ss8 to his therapy appointment yesterday. He asked BM but she said she was busy. So I said I would, in reality I am pretty much the only one that takes him.

Well Ss8 had some testing done a month and a half ago and additional therapy was suggested. Therapist had been sent a copy of the results but when I got there she came out and asked me what exactly 'we' wanted to focus on in these sessions. She knows that I am the step mom. I was just kind of shocked that no one had bothered to at least call her and tell her their concerns and what to focus on.

So we talked about the testing, I had been there for it. She wasn't surprised by the results and claims she kind of knew and it looked like I did too. They tested the parent there to see where our concerns lie. She commented the BM didn't seem to have a clue. I on the other hand had been on par with her own concerns. I told her what DH and BM had said in the testing to give her some direction for this session. Of course ss8 is standing there for all of this and chiming in. I know it's not my place to make this call but they out me on the spot. I told her that I would have DH call her and leaving her a message.

To too off my day we had to drive by BM's house more than once since it's on they way to and from the therapist office and her car was there both times! I know that doesn't mean she didn't have something going on but what is more important than your child. DH said when she went by later her car was gone.

I was mad when he got home I told him he owed me. He said that he didn't even think to call the therapist and tell her what to work on. But I am pretty sure I suggested they met with her first.