Yep! You read that ish right. HUBBY CALLED THE COPS ON ME!

Today in therapy, the girls told their case manager that they felt like they spent too much time with their dad lately. They were hurt over the things that he said last night. I took it to heart, so we made a game plan.

Hubby was NOT supposed to come over tonight, but he called me from a few minutes down the road. He was on his way here to get some more of his things (he only has 1 outfit at Mom's), so I told the girls they could put on their shoes and go to a friend's house. When Hubby got here, he asked me if they were gone because he was coming, and I lied.

I lied like a rug! I told him no, they were at a friend's playing. I offered to call them home, if he wanted me to.

Hubby said no, he wanted to talk about us. I just sat here, and let him blow steam. He told me that he felt like I was trying to keep the kids away from him (by letting him come here EVERY DAY?) and that I was turning them against him. I just kept it noncommittal and non-confrontational.

Then, Hubby said that he was going to force my hand, if I didn't let him move back in. He said he didn't want to hurt me, but that he would take the kids away from me, if I didn't let him move back in. I told him that he had to do what he had to do.

So, Hubby called the cops! I listened to him tell them that I was threatening him, and that I had a knife! OMG! I was SO SCARED!

When Hubby got off the phone, I went out to the porch to wait. I texted SD15 aand told her that her dad had called the cops, and she may have to come home and tell them the truth. (Hindsight is 20/20! I should NOT of told SD15 ANYTHING until I knew that I needed her to talk to them. If there is ever a next time, I hope that I remember this!)

So, the cops got here, and Hubby was laughing! He didn't act scared for his life, at all! I'll bet the cop thought he was an idiot.

Anyways, she (the cop was a woman) asked Hubby his story, first. Suddenly, Hubby was telling half-truths. He said that I had kicked him out a week ago, and that he was sleeping in his car (Hubby is sleeping at Mom's). The cop caught that, and said "So, you no longer live here?"

Finally, the cop asked me my side of the story. I told her the truth. She asked Hubby if I had told the truth, and he said not really. I asked Hubby to tell the cop what lies I had told, but he couldn't come up with any.

In the end, the cop told Hubby to leave. I came inside and got my ID and when I came back outside, Hubby was asking her about a restraining order. :jawdrop: (Honestly, it took me longer to find my ID, because I sat down and bawled for a minute, first. I really really didn't expect my life to ever be like this!)

I asked the cop if she would be filing a report. She said that she would, and that the report would say that Hubby called them, but that I was keeping him away because the kids are scared.

I called SD15 to let her know that it was all over, and she could come home if she wanted. SD15, SD12 and Friend20 came into the house together. The three of them told me that it is time to file a restraining order.

I don't know if I can get a RO or CPO since I've never filed a report on Hubby. My cousin is going to take me to the courthouse on Wednesday, though, so I can try. Wish me luck, guys!