You are here

Update on DH ....cousins stag do .....& the nightmare I am living

Sootica's picture

Submitted by Sootica on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 4:37pm

So BM wasn't budging on having ss for DH this weekend,I said not my problem as this was "their" arrangement.I get a call from MIL at work 17h30 when will I be home so she can drop ss off-er excuse me but WTF???!I then find out DH had no where to put ss tonight so I am to look after him,he is going to FIL Sat eve back to me Sun & I am to take him to school Mon morn?!REALLY?DH are you freaking kidding me?!!!!I am so angry right now am ready to blow an artery-I hate my life!

Comments

oldone's picture

Submitted by oldone on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 4:44pm

You should have told her you weren't coming home until Sat. am - you were staying with a friend.

Sootica's picture

Submitted by Sootica on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 4:46pm

Trust me if I had family to pack my bags to I so would but I don't.MIL is working night duty next 4 nights & ss had no where else to go as his own mother won't have him-I am beyond pissed off.But hey Ho just another "benefit" of bring a foreigner in a place that's not your homeland with zero support.

simifan's picture

Submitted by simifan on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 7:25pm

I would not ever ever let him get away with this. Drop him off @ BMs. Take him to DH & let him know his child is in the car, take him to the police station and report him abandoned. Getting his jollies with the boys is more important then getting a sitter for his child?!? What a man you got there.

simifan's picture

Submitted by simifan on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 7:25pm

I would not ever ever let him get away with this. Drop him off @ BMs. Take him to DH & let him know his child is in the car, take him to the police station and report him abandoned. Getting his jollies with the boys is more important then getting a sitter for his child?!? What a man you got there.

mannin's picture

Submitted by mannin on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 7:41pm

If you let them get away with this, it will never end.

You need to end it now. This behavior will only continue if you reward it by being a doormat.

Btw, I'm sorry. Sad