Dad is adjusting. He has his good days and not so good. He finally went though some of mom's stuff. Cried like a baby. Riped my heart out. 1/2 sister no help 1/2 brother M.I.A. I have written off #1 and #2. Funny as how #2 was my favorite at the beggining. Have a great relationship with #3. #4 on fence he is about to hit mutant stag. Then we will see. You guys have no idea how much I needed to know that I was not the only one out there. THANK YOU!!!!