So... The divorce is currently on hold because DH is in the process of filing for bankruptcy...another story. During the last drop-off BM got so angry with DH that she punched the hood of his car. The car is only 5 months old, and I don't know if she knows the car is both of ours. She didn't do much damage bur she realized what she did and asked if there was damage and if he was going to file another RO. After speaking to his attorney, she said not to do anything at this time mostly because no civil action can be brought up during his bankruptcy. While angry, I told him that if she does it again then I would call the police and file criminal charges. We found out that if he reports it it is civil but if I report it it is criminal. He doesn't want any mess right now while the divorce hasn't been finalized, but I told him (with my balls blazing) if something happened to him or to us, I couldn't file charges after the fact, that I was protecting myself and property, and I hoped he understood. Was this wrong? Could I have said it nicer but with the same message?