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SD's recent opinion of BM

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Submitted by StarStuff on Thu, 07/07/2011 - 7:04am

So last night SD7 told SO "Yeah, my mom's a bitch" in a totally nonchalant manner. And mind you this is a kid who is not unruly or habitually uses curse words. SD7 even told me a couple of weeks ago that "I've heard bad words a million times, even from my mom, but I NEVER say them." Mind you, SO and I do not speak badly of BM in front of SD other than to explain that BM is not in a good place right now or to explain that SO and BM just don't get along very well. SO told SD that it's ok for SD to love her mom even if he doesn't. I just feel like this is a testament to how much SD7 feels mistreated by BM and does not want to live with her again. And do you think BM has even tried to talk to SD7 since we got her? Nope. Only one text and that was to call SO a motherfu**er.

Oh, and on a side note: Our house got broken into about a week ago (only took my laptop, nothing else disturbed), and the first thing SD thinks is that BM probably tried to break in to steal SD back - not a prospect SD was particularly happy about. We explained that this was not the case...just someone looking for some quick money.

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Submitted by SteppingUp on Thu, 07/07/2011 - 9:38am

Isn't it something when young kids call out their own parents? Ours isn't as drastic of a situation but my SD6 constantly says, "Ughhh why does mommy LIE to us ALL THE TIME?" because she tells them she signs them up for gymnastics or whatever and then they're not, or tells them they're going somewhere like a water park that weekend but it's just to make them excited to go back to her house after being at ours, and she never had any intention of taking them. I usually make up something and say "Oh I'm sure there is some reason why the plans changed..." or whatever but then SD insists that she is just a liar.

Sorry to hear about your house being broken into! That is really scary.