I feel like every time I say something emotional to my husband or ask for emotional support, he attacks me and blames me. I cant even tell him through a text while I am out of town on business that I need emotional reassurance without him sending me 14, yes, 14 nasty text messages back about how I give him no credit for all the good he does, how Im never happy and all I do is put him down. All I said was I need emotional support and I wish it was two years ago when we used to talk on the phone for hours when I was away.

Am I being too hard on him? Or is he being an ASS? He has his daughter while I am away, my SD9 is messy and he has a lot to so when Im away bc I do everything (cleaning, cooking, driving) when Im home so he has to take over and he gets overwhelmed. But hello? Its his house and his damn daughter that he is taking care of! Why am i supposed to feel bad for him when he has to take over the responsibilities that I have to do everyday when Im home. ERrrrrr how am I ever going to get closer to him and mesh our family more positively if he constantly thinks I am degrading him whenever I say something emotional?