and BM is still pointing the finger at me for her entire dysfunctional relationship with DH, again. I am so sick of it! BM and DH have been exchanging nasty emails/texts that all started from her not talking to the skids on Christmas eve. And, of course, she continues to blame me for being the cause of their problems. Not true. Sorry we didn't anticipate that she would want to talk to skids on Christmas eve. She never did before. We also have this 'crazy' idea to respect the other parent's parenting time esp on holidays--we don't demand phone calls or complain about the lack thereof. It's always been that way. That night we were too busy enjoying the holiday w/skids and DH's family out of town. She was going to see them the next day, actually on Christmas. But, of course, it was all intentional and we prevented skids from calling her, according to her. She always plays the victim and we're the manipulators, etc.
Well, I found out that BM named me in her recent email to DH. I'm the vindictive wife that initiates these things. I know DH will respond to her by saying leave SM out of this, but I can't help wanting to send her an email telling her to blow it out of her a@#. I know it won't get me anywhere, but telling her to f%@k off-maybe not that direct, either by email or in person, does give me some sense of satisfaction. Plus, I opt out of reading her responses-because they are so ridiculous- and I know she doesn't have enough restraint to do the same.
I doubt I will do it, but I am so sick of her trying to convince DH that I am to blame. She's too scared to actually say what she really thinks to me directly but loves to relay this to DH. She loves implying she such a martyr and he's so blind to see the tricks I play. She creates this drama and then points the finger when she doesn't get her way. She's such a f#%*in' child.
I know things won't change but I just need to vent.