So I spoke with DH about having skids at the house this weekend while I will be out of town and he kinda got it? Said he was just trying to start somewhere. They have told him repeatedly that they will not come as long as I am at the house...(then dont come). So we started talking more and you could tell that it is really starting to weigh on him and I broke down and told him "you know what i've had enough! a year and a half of being blamed for the reason you dont see your kids is too long. Im done being made to feel guilty by you and other family members. So i told him either you leave or i will. Well it was easier for him to go so he stayed somewhere else last night texted me at 9:45 and I asked where he was (he is still my husband) HE WAS AT BM'S HOUSE TALKING TO HIS KIDS AT 10 A FUCKING CLOCK AT NIGHT WTF!!!! Just made me feel better about descision I made. So as Im taking my daughter to school this morning her and SD13 go to same school we pass the bitches in the school line and they start pointing and laughing...mind you this is not the first time this has happened I usually get the finger...classy I know. So I texted asshole husband and told him to relay a message to those bitches that i dont give a fuck if he moves in with them none of them are any longer my problem!!! I am fed up and over it and I think he is scared to death b/c I have made threats of leaving before but never followed through and I wont even answer his phone calls or texts! I can honestly say I hate him for putting me and my daughter through this and doubt I will ever be able to forgive him!!!