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Submitted by Sunshine1992 on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 1:02pm

Just wanted to give anyone who is concerned the final update. I now have the keys to my place, so I have a place to stay that is out of this mans house. 
 

Not gonna lie, going through a lot of feelings ... changes sometimes get to me, my life has been a bit of a whirlwind the past year so trying to digest something else will probably be a little bit hard.

 

but I'm confident that moving was the right decision and this will give me the clarity I need to figure out the next steps of my life. 
 

thanks to everyone on this forum who took the time to write supportive comments and help me through a rough time. You're all great. 

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Submitted by JRI on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 1:43pm

I read back thru your blogs and I'm glad you are out of there.  Moving is stressful, even in a good situation but it's a temporary stress.  As Carolyn Hax said, there are 2 things about transitions, 1) they're hard and 2) they're temporary.  Good luck!

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Submitted by Sunshine1992 on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 2:27pm

Thank you!! Yeah, just getting used to sleeping in a different place, new neighborhood... but I'm so glad I'm not wasting any more time living in that situation. Thanks again for the support !!

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Submitted by shellpell on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 2:24pm

YAY congrats!!! You made it further than many who stay and stay miserable while they waste their lives away with losers and their loser kids.

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Submitted by Sunshine1992 on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 2:28pm

Yes, thank you so much . I'm turning 29 and it's time to face adulthood and make better choices for myself, so I'm glad I made this one. I really believe the tough but good advice from this group is part of the reason I didn't just stick around until things got even worse. So thanks again ! 

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Submitted by tog redux on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 2:30pm

For sure. You are young, take the time to figure out how you ended up in the bad relationship so you can avoid it in the future.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 2:31pm

 Very understandable that you have a lot of feelings. The end of a relationship is a death, of sorts. Time heals all things. Good luck!

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Submitted by grannyd on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 3:37pm

Yo, Hon,

 

I’ve been following your posts with concern and hopefulness. And yes, you’ve turned out to be one of the success stories on this site; a woman with enough self-awareness and sense of worth to escape from an unhealthy situation. Break-ups are tumultuous, as everyone has stated, but you’ll find that the sad times will, gradually, be tempered with relief. Please keep in touch! We're all rooting for you. Give rose

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Submitted by Sunshine1992 on Sun, 10/03/2021 - 7:32am

Thank you, I truly appreciate your kindness in your message. I'm going to take this turning point in my life and do the best that I can . ❤️❤️

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Submitted by hereiam on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 3:41pm

You have done the hard part, actually making the decision to leave and DOING it. Everything from here on out is just part of a new adventure; your new, wonderful life. You've got this.

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Submitted by StepUltimate on Sat, 10/02/2021 - 7:49pm

Nice to read your update. I get it; have some years/decades on you but also ending my marriage right now, STBXH moving out to another place. Its stressful, sometimes overwhelming, but also a tremendous relief!

Keep taking good care of you. Biggrin

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Submitted by Sunshine1992 on Sun, 10/03/2021 - 7:34am

It is certainly a relief !! Sad, confusing, a bit isolating too but part of the process . Thanks for your support!!