I am Not Dealing With It! When YOU Live in MY Home, Then Maybe I Will Listen to You ... Actually, NO.
In a nutshell, SS11 is in trouble for being disrespectful. Don't care as to what the source is ... DH is gone for business this week.
I am not putting up with his tantrums.
BM called and spoke to SS9 - her second choice. He told her she can't talk to him because he is grounded in his room for the night. She flipped and called DH - while he is on business - to yell that I have no right to stop her talking to her son.
I have done this before and told SS11 to call her when he isn't grounded.
Do you know WHY I do this?
Because she tells him he is sweet and wonderful, her favorite son, and his Dad is a monster or I am a tyrant.
Call it PAS or whatever.
I am not dealing with drama or disrespect from a moody, hormonal, borderline bipolar, manipulative 11 year old! Or his BM.
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Wow. Your right not allowing
Wow. Your right not allowing the mother to talk to SS11 while he is grounded if all she is going to do is PAS the crap out of him.
I feel your frustration with your SS11. Today I yelled at the top of my lungs at SS12. Somewhere along all that yelling the F word was used more than once. No it's not right to use profanity but I will use it when I am extremely pissed off. I told SS12 "you hear me using the f word? That's mean you have truly pissed me off now!" my problem with this kid is he does NOT know when and how to keep his mouth SHUT. He was trying to tell me that I said this and that. When I never ever said that and this!
Lucky for me skids don't see or talk to BM.
Stay calm. Send him to bed. Go to your room with a nice glass of wine. Watch yourself a good movie or read a good book.
Remember stay calm!
Yeah I know what you're
Yeah I know what you're talking about. SS's BM really hates it when I discipline the Skids. She's one of those people who thinks that every time her kids get in trouble (which is OFTEN) that everyone is out to get her preciouses and that her kids can do no wrong. It's not too bad with SS11 because he very much takes after DH, so BM is pretty much whatever about him, but SS9 is her BABY. Now she has them telling DH that I set them up to get them into trouble. For instance, they both have this disorder apparently where they forget to turn all the lights off in the basement (where their bedrooms, living room, and bathroom are), so DH happened to call on his way to taking them to school one day and I told him about it. SS9 said, "She probably went and turned all the lights on just so we'd get in trouble." Lucky for me, DH is smart and doesn't take crap from them most times, so he said, "Why would she go around and turn all the lights on when no one else is home to see them just to get you guys in trouble? And since when does she make stuff up about you? Every time you guys have gotten in trouble for something, it's been because of something you actually did, not something she made up, so nice try." I was mad at first, but then I laughed because it was so stupid.