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So Chef Thinks it's Childish...

thinkthrice's picture

I set up a credit union account quite a while back and I used a very lightly disparaging-to-the-Girhippo security code phrase that he saw when I was logging in.

Now mind you he asked me to log into my account because they were doing planned maintenance at the bank and he thought that he had overdrawn once again which he usually had done for tbe past eleven years routinely.

And this is a guy who basically has been living off of my salary for the past 11 years due to massive CS and has just started to contribute his fair share.

And this is a guy who stands in front of NFL games and screams at the TV and assumes a football stance as though he were playing.

And this is a guy who used to defend the Girhippo consistently whenever there was blatant PAS, etc.

He saw my little security phrase and said "oh honey you should get rid of that it's really childish."

I wonder if he'd be happier if my security phrase had been the Girhippo was smart to dump chef?

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Monchichi's picture

We all need our little kicks to cope. Tell Chef to put on his big girl panties and build a bridge.

Snowflake's picture

Why are you still with him? You would pay less for a handyman then you would be supporting him.

thinkthrice's picture

You're probably right. Since his recent ability to pay room and board, his handyman activities have significantly waned. My car is on the fritz and instead of offering to fix it, he told me just to "buy a new one" This from a guy who was dead set against car payments when he was barely conteibuting.

Cooooookies's picture

Again I really don't know why you're with him. If you've been supporting his dead weight, then you can obviously make it on your own. What are you doing? I'm not trying to be mean at all but you can do so so soooooo much better.

thinkthrice's picture

BAck in the early years, when the Gir was calling non-stop, specifically during visitation, I programmed Chef's phone to say something extremely harmless, a reference to hot air or something like that which rhymed with the Girhippo's first name.

He was INCENSED and told me to take that off immediately!

thinkthrice's picture

Oh he loves low brow humour. He is scared shitless of the BM. Thinks she'll somehow find out about my "childish" security phrase and he'll have to bear the brunt of it (eyeroll)

StepLady's picture

Do you think he truly cares about the password or is he just a selfish prick that enjoyed having something to bitch about? Some people just love something to have a fit about to manipulate those around them. I am not sure how big of a dickhead he is.

thinkthrice's picture

The latter. Yes manipulation, yes giant dickweed.