You are here

Hex wants to get SD a new counselor

Toastergirl's picture

Submitted by Toastergirl on Tue, 10/06/2015 - 10:07pm

The never ending story, chapter 100 page 99. This convo just took place while SD and I were playing a computer game together:

Me: so how are things going?
SD: well...not good.
Me: why?
SD: my mom wants to get me a new counselor.
Me: why??? I thought she was nice
SD: well she is and she's helped me but my mom says she's trying to change me.
Me: oh......
SD: yeah so she's looking into getting me a new one. I've stopped biting you know. So there's really no need to see her.
Me: uh huh.

Fact: PAS has decreased in the past few months. It's been so much better since June.
Fact: SD has let slip sighs when it comes to talking to hex on the phone. Like a normal kid
Fact: SD has been showing more affection towards DH

How much do we want to bet SDs counselor has finally figured out the writing on the wall?
How much do we want to bet the counselor has told Hex to cut the "Diary talk" to SD?
How much do we want to bet SD has started to stand up to hex? And hex doesn't like it?

SD has been seeing this counselor since December. I'll bet hex pulls her out after the trial (depending on what the counselor told the GAL) or right at the December mark. And then this will just continue to cycle and cycle- with hex getting SD new counselors and pulling them out when she makes progress.

Comments

Monchichi's picture

Submitted by Monchichi on Wed, 10/07/2015 - 1:36am

Oh Toaster this is not a good sign. When Jabba figured out they were solving Chucky's problems with H and starting normalise his behaviour, dig deep in to what she was doing. She found a way to stop the therapy cold.

I wish tog were still here. She would be able to offer better advice than I can. If the counselor really is helping and SD is improving then Hex will do her best to put a swift stop to it.

Toastergirl's picture

Submitted by Toastergirl on Wed, 10/07/2015 - 4:00am

I know Sad I need Tog so badly. Does anyone know where she went? Her hex and mine are practically evil twins.

And I figured as such. Now begins the revolving door of therapists. I'm sorry you've witnessed the same thing with little chucky. This is so fucked up.

Monchichi's picture

Submitted by Monchichi on Wed, 10/07/2015 - 4:03am

We have been through this. It's hideous (hugs). I'm here to listen if nothing else. We lose more of Chucky each week that goes by. He's so disconnected. Jabba is not even subtle about it any more.

Toastergirl's picture

Submitted by Toastergirl on Wed, 10/07/2015 - 4:05am

Hex sits and waits in the waiting room. And yes, you are right on target Sad

She can completely pull SD out without DHs or SDs consent. I don't see SD bringing it up with the counselor though Sad I think DH should go and meet with the counselor alone. But I'm just worn. It's constantly games with this woman, or what will benefit HER.

Toastergirl's picture

Submitted by Toastergirl on Wed, 10/07/2015 - 3:57am

Not really. Hex didn't even tell him when SD first started going to the counselor. SD eventually told me, and I in turn told DH who emailed hex asking how long SD had been in counseling and with whom. DH has joint legal. However it states of the two parents cannot come to an agreement, the mother has the final authority as the decision maker. Which means DH never gets consulted or if he disagrees with hex she doesn't give a shit and does whatever she wants