SD pantsed a first grader
I'm at a standstill and I want to cry. I really do. I'm so tired of my SD being a bully. I've seen how she's treated other children for years- classmates, neighbor kids, my DD, friends, younger children. I don't know how much I can stomach. We've punished her for rudeness and bullying before. I can't stomach the gossiping, the purposely ignoring other girls because they don't dress as nice, everything. Today before school on the playground she pantsed a first grader. My SD is in forth grade. We get her every other weekend and one weeknight after the weekend we don't get her. I feel so bad for that little girl. The school counselor called DH, and said they were revoking recess for the rest of the school year (1 week left). DH called hex and told her what happened. She just said "ok". Whenever DH mentioned punishments and said he wouldn't buy her a season pass to the local amusement park, hex said:
"Well but her daycare goes during the summer so she needs a season pass".
It did NOT occur to hex hat SD should have to miss out on the amusement park bc of what she did. Up until this year, hex was only punishing SD by taking away stuffed animals or not buying her her favorite meal. Now she has graduated to taking away tv the day she gets bad news from school.
SD received a Thursday slip (sometimes up to four or five in one week) every week except for three weeks this school year (not consecutive). I think DH should tell hex and SD he won't take her to chior next year if she misbehaves like this in the fall (she will, she's been a monster since she was spawned). DH says that will rock the boat with hex too much. I said IDGAF because she's harming innocent six year olds and I'm done with this. If this is what it takes to get hexs butt in action to discipline, then so be it. If this is what soaks into SDs brain that she can't keep bullying others, then so be it!
I hate how my stepdaughter is hurting other children. It makes me sick.
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You're right. I just feel so
You're right. I just feel so bad for the kids she hurts. I know logically I shouldn't get involved- I can't change SD. But then I think if I sit back and do nothing she will go around terrorizing other kids and that's not right.
Urghhh steplife stinks
She needs to take on some
She needs to take on some little kid with BIG siblings. Someone who will knock her flat.
I actually wish that would
I actually wish that would happen. Or the school had made her be a part of in school suspension. Something drastic to make
Her pull her head out of her butt and realize she can't keep doing this.
I try so hard. I really do.
I try so hard. I really do. There are overnights when I just hide in my room. It's so cyclical: I care, I get hurt, I withdraw, then I miss her and care again
Hex would never let us watch
Hex would never let us watch SD on her time (even though she's at daycare). They have workers who stay behind at the daycare with the other kids who cannot go for whatever reason. SD would just have to sit behind and be miserable for a day while everyone else is gone at the amusement park.
Haha she's loonier than a
Haha she's loonier than a tune. She has no common sense
I think it's great that
I think it's great that you're concerned about the kids that she's abusing. I'd be so upset if a child did something like that to my BD8 or SD6! I'm sorry that there's not much you can do to get BM to give a sh*t about her daughter's behavioral problems. My guess is that her outrageous behavior will only escalate the older she gets.