So last night Dh got mad at me because I was trying to talk to him about why we don't have a sex life anymore. The things that I was bringing up were the same things that we have talked about before in regards to our relationship but we never really talked about them affecting our sex life. I was trying to explain to him that it's hard for me to get in the mood after having to compete with his 7 year old BD for wife status for months not to mention everything else. We're going on three weeks now.

Of course DH doesn't want to talk about it. His explanation is that we have already talked about it before which we have. But we have never talked about it in regards to our sex life and how and why it affects it. So it goes from I don't want to talk about it to DH getting defensive. This is his usual reaction. "I don't want to talk about it until it's gotten completely our of control." I did point out that not talking about is not helping the situation. So from there it goes to DH telling me that I have ruined the week. (MIL and FIL have taken all three kids for the entire week.) That was pretty much the end of the convo other than when I went out into the living room and told him that just because the kids are out of site doesn't mean that everythings changed and it's hard to feel sexually attracted to him when I have to compete with a 7 year old. He doesn't even sit with me when his kids are there. Maybe occasionally, but hardly ever. I feel like I'm just waiting my turn.

This is how our week has gone.

Sunday: I did drink a little to much wine but the arguement was about when his brother and his firend were over for the 4th and I was trying to tell them a story that I found funny. I couldn't get more than a couple words out before DH would jump in and be like they don't want to hear this story, they've already heard this story, it's not a funny story over and over again. It got to the point that I lost my place several times and by the time I got to the end it wasn't funny. I talked with him out in the garage about it and he did appologize in front of hi brother and friend but it still irkes me. I would have never treated him so disrespectfully. I was so embarassed while he was doing it to me. (on a side note right after his brother left he told me that all I do is repeat the same stories over and over again and that I was rude to his friend which I wasn't. I feel like sometimes he's tearing my selfesteem down by doing this.) So this is how I ruined Sunday.

Monday: DH had a migraine.

Tuesday: I had a horrible day at work.

Wednesday: Well, that was last night.

I'm getting so fed up with all of this. I don't feel like I ruined the entire week. DH feels that way because we haven't had sex. I'm just not in the mood. Would you guys be?