My husband went to see SS at his parent's house. SS yelled at my husband saying he was just like his mother. That he wish he had never been born to them. And he told him to never talk to him ever again. And that he was going to go become a "gay hooker" since my husband thinks of him as one anyway. My husband slapped him and came home. He went into the bathroom and cried. I feel terrible but I do not want such a toxic person around my children. My M-IL called and said my husband was wrong for slapping SS. And she said she does not need our 50 dollars a month for keeping SS. But then she said she won't look after our kids anymore because she does not want to leave SS at her home alone. She is talking like SS is suicidal. She is just over the top. So now I am panicking and trying to find child care that we can afford. I hate my life.