I am irritated.....
The hearings on our motion to compel Medusa to produce her income related documents and our objections to the FOC support recommendation is in T minus 8 days.
I have taken some time on Thursday and all day Friday off of work. I have booked a hotel room at a very lovely and expensive hotel that is costing me very little (thanks, reward points) and I have made reservations for a strategy dinner with DH, Awesome Attorney and me for Thursday night, for which Awesome Attorney is paying.
I am irritated because I doubt she will show up. If she doesn't, Awesome will ask for an order to show cause, which will result in yet another hearing in MedusaTown and more time off of work. We will also ask that the recommendation be dismissed if she doesn't show up, but let's face it, that's not going to happen. We will also ask for attorney's fees, and that actually might happen, because Judge has done that before.
I am also irritated because it's a motion call day, and that means that no actual decisions will be made anyhow. If she does show up, he will order her to comply with the discovery requests and give us her income information, which will in turn delay everything as she will be given more time to not comply.
The stupidest part? ASS will likely have graduated from high school by the time we even get a hearing date.
And, so it goes. Soooooooooooo glad I negotiated a flat fee with Awesome this time around!!!
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I wish you all the luck and
I wish you all the luck and hope things go well for you!
Last time we had BM in for CS and she was ordered to provide income documents, she used white out to cover up her hourly and annual income on her pay stubs before submitting to the judge.
He was not please
She then proceed to cry and insist that she doesn't recall how much she makes or have the original papers.
didn't remember how much she
didn't remember how much she makes? LOL!!
I don't care who you are, that's funny, right there!!
Yes it is! And she was the
Yes it is!
And she was the one who dragged us into court calming she made less.
The judge was mad, the bailiff was laughing at her even the stenographer looked at her like she was stupid when the judge said "did you use white out on your paystub?"
Well, were there any
Well, were there any consequences to her behavior? Our BM does this kind of stuff all the time, and they just let her do it because she's the mom... and basically moms get to screw dads in California. That's just how it is.
Best of luck. I can relate.
Best of luck. I can relate. BM showed up to last CS hearing claiming she didn't even know why she was there. Really you show up to court and don't know why and of course she had no paperwork. Rescheduled. Ours will be graduated also before we get a dime out of BM.
oh yeah - she is the QUEEN of
oh yeah - she is the QUEEN of saying "I never received that, Your Honor." Which is why we ALWAYS have her personally served.
She told FOC that she didn't open her resale shop and that it didn't exist. We had her personally served at said store. Can't wait to hear how she explains that one away - "I wasn't really lying when I said that the store never came into existence, and the reason I was there that one day that they miraculously had me served was because I was shopping there."
Or some such bullshit.
yeah - Medusa will come up
yeah - Medusa will come up with some bullshit, I am sure.
She maintains that the business she sold her business to agreed to add her name to all the shared accounts for three years. Now that the three years are up, her numbers have gone down. That is probably legitimate. The IWO is at that company and the amount that DH gets keeps getting smaller and smaller.
What she didn't tell FOC was that she opened a business, and that business obviously has sales and she is likely paying herself. And, even AFTER I provided FOC with the LLC formation documents, her business card for said store, a photograph of the front of the store with her car parked in front of it, AND an audio recording of her voice on the store's voice mail (think nails on a chalkboard), FOC STILL believed her bullshit story.
FOC asked her about the store. "oh we were going to open that up, but it never came to fruition." Oh,sure, whatever you say, ok then :?
How frustrating for you. All
How frustrating for you. All the while Medusa goes on without a care in the world. I just don't know how they manage to get away with it.
right? She just walks
right? She just walks around like she never had kids.....
Bitch...
Good luck I hope she
Good luck I hope she shows!
Even if doesn't get resolved until after he's graduated won't it still help you? In our state everything is retroactive to the date of filing so maybe she will owe you money!
I am thinking of you and hope
I am thinking of you and hope everything goes well for you.
God knows in our state it seems to be harder to get a BM to pay a decent amount in CS than it is to nail jello to the wall.
So sorry. Stupid women who
So sorry. Stupid women who don't support their own off spring. Such CRAP!!!!!!
And they get away with it. I have to tell you, I'm losing interest real fast and going after child-support from hubby's ex. She is a POS that would also get away with not having to do anything.
Ye olde double standard at
Ye olde double standard at play. Had this been a non-custodial bio dad he would have been in prison by now for non payment and obstruction of justice
Right? And THAT irritates
Right? And THAT irritates me. To NO END!!!