This time I did not answer it. It was 10:00 PM. my daughter is sleeping and BM calls. My H and I did not answer it and let the machine get it. Sounding very mad she said that she knew it was 10:00 but she really need to talk to H and for him to call her.
I looked at my H and said " I did nothing and said nothing to SS all weekend" I'm sure SS went home and told BM that he felt he was not wanted there or I said somthing!
To find out my H told me that SS told him back in May of 08 that SS looked H in the face and told him that SS felt like I did not want him there anymore. I asked H why he didn;t tell me at that time so I could fix it or change something. H said he did not want to hurt my feelings. REALLY didn't want to hurt my feeling, but he will tell me I act like my mother ( she can be a little daring somtimes and yes it does hurt my feelings) I think I need to know these things. now I feel like SS H AND BM are keeping things from me.
Then I asked him if he wanted a divorce? he said no and went back to reading his truck paper. I went in my room crying hoping he would come in there and talk but NOOO he kept sitting in his chair reading... I felt wanted!!!!!
I tried to call to see if BM called him today and see what BM said, I don't think he will tell me any of that conversation. H also says that he is tired of us always fighting over the same thing. BM and SS.
I;m getting so sick of this. every weekend I look like the bad guy and now I;m afraid to be left alone with SS or go anywhere with him.
any input would be great, thanks