Lately it seems like every weekend that the skids are supposed to be with their BM (week on week off custody) my DH has some reason to bring them over. The weekend before was MY brother’s birthday and they were all going to the beach, we had them this past weekend and next weekend my DH got tickets to go to an amusement park that are only good for that day. This has been happening a lot over the past few months, these are just a few examples. I’m going to sound like a total bitch right now, but I’m so tired of him always picking up the slack for their craptastic mother. She leaves them home alone all weekend long while she does whatever. They are teenagers. My DH feels so bad for them that they are stuck in the house all weekend so he’s always going over and getting them. I tried to tell him that she will never change or do anything with them if he will just do it for her! It’s SO annoying. I just found out that her and her boyfriend have year round passes to Disney, but her kids don’t. I find that so strange. I have no patience for shitty BM’s (no pun intended ) and the DH’s that enable them.