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Submitted by zenjetset on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 7:25pm

FDH needs to go to the hospital, he has been complaining about arm pain for the past two months. Obviously, it keeps getting worse, but he won't do anything about it. Finally tonight, he walks in from work (literally 10 minutes ago) and says I need to go to the hospital, I've been really good about holding in this pain. I say, let's go. He says, no we need to wait until I don't have to work!!! really honey, really you need to wait...you need to wait until what your shitty ass job gives you permission to go to the hospital....come on!!! really?!?!?!?

So now, we are sitting here waiting....until 9pm to go to the hospital because he doesn't want to get in trouble with work....

if it's not one thing it's another...i will be at the hospital until at least 2am.

love me fdh but he puts everything in front of himself...the man had cancer you would think he would have some sense of urgency.

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Submitted by zenjetset on Mon, 09/13/2010 - 1:13pm

Yes left arm! It's more like left shoulder he is left handed. I believe it's from over use, but in anycase he needs to have it checked! I've thought about the whole heart attack left arm pain correlation and that's one of the reasons I'm upset because he just won't take it seriously. He says his fingers are going numb now.
Guess he will wait until he can't use it. I've concluded he is an adult and I can't do or say anything else!

We didn't go to the hospital last night, instead we got into a fight about going or not.