SS20 and his GF came over yesterday so that SS could work on his car. I actually like SS. He used to live with us. I have no problems with him.

So I sat outside while SS worked on his car and DH supervised. LOL.

GF was very talkative. Normally she is kind of shy. SS has been coming over more to work on his car, so I think GF is warming up to me. It was actually nice- all 4 of us sitting outside chit chatting. They even stayed for dinner- we cooked out.

So what I learned:

OSD21 due date with baby #2 is due 2 days before DH and I's wedding date. I pray that baby isnt born on our wedding date. LOL. Or it may be funny in that it will always be a reminder of me and DH being married. I know how much that would irk OSD.....

YSD15 has a boyfriend. She was also home alone with boyfriend because BM is in the hospital. SS mentioned it to DH. I am sure it wont be long before YSD joins her sister in having a baby while in H.S.

BM had to get surgery for back issues. While I dont care for BM, I know back issues suck.I guess she now has a huge scar on her neck from where they did the surgery. She is in the hospital for a few days and then she will be out of work for 7 weeks. Oh man I know she is going to get even fatter, being laid up after surgery. Is that bad to be excited about that? Ha Ha.

When SS was telling us this I said "I guess carrying all that hate around has finally caught up with her." LOL I couldnt believe I said that. It just came out so naturally.

So YSD is home alone while BM is in the hospital. And boyfriend is coming over.

The most *exciting* thing that I learned is that MSD18 never graduated H.S.!

Now if some of you recall... I posted this (http://www.steptalk.org/node/187654) a couple of months back. So lastnight SS happened to mention that MSD did not have enough credits to graduate and that she was suppose to be taking summer classes, which she hasn't been going.

MSD LIED to DH when he asked her about graduation ceremony. I think this is just funny... DH is so dumb when it comes to his kids. He takes everything at face value. I knew something was up. There is no reason she wouldnt want to walk with her class for graduation.

Going into her senior year MSD didnt have that many classes to take to graduate. She is actually very smart and was ahead of the game. So supposedly she was going to school for a few hours in the morning and then going to work. How she didnt have enough credits to pass, when she didnt even have that many to take is beyond me.

Now if you remember- MSD has a baby. She hasnt lived with BM since she was probably 17 (except for a few months when her and the baby dad broke up- but BM then kicked MSD out and MSD went back to BF). DH had been paying BM CS even though MSD didnt live with her. And BM wasnt even giving MSD any money or helping her.

However as long as MSD was in school, even though she turned 18, DH had to pay CS. He couldnt even get it switched over to MSD directly. So it burned our asses that CS was going to BM, and wasnt even going to help support MSD. But now to find out that DH was paying CS and MSD wasnt even in school---- uggghhh that just grinds my nerves.

I am going to send an email to the CS office on behalf of DH and see if they will do anything about it. Possibly get that child support back? Not sure if she would have had to be officially withdrawn from school? Or if they would go off of her attendance record?

Of course DH was blowing it off because it makes MSD look bad that she lied to him and didnt even graduate from school and cant even do summer classes to get her diploma. Guess she wont be going to nursing school this fall after all....