Happy Friday!

I actually have to get dressed and go into work. I have worked from home every Friday for the past 2 1/2 years! Thankfully its just training (and fun training- Pro Bono legal training).

YSD started texting DH about wanting to move in with us. She even asked for my number so she could talk to me so he wouldnt have to. (Ha Ha like she can convince me over him). She said that BM uses them against DH and talks crap. (Duh and if you know it YSD then dont fall for it). She also tried to sweeten the deal, well at least mom would have to pay you CS. HA! Yeah probably about $60 a month with her shit job. Ummm no thanks. Funny though how she even brought that up. Goes to show their is a lot of importance put on CS and who pays who.

Even though DH pays A LOT in CS to BM, no amount of money is worth having YSD live with us. Well ME! LOL.

Guess YSD cant get along with her new STEPDAD! Geez, she thinks it will be better with me? We have hardly spoken in the past 2 1/2 years.

I guess she is going to stay with OSD over the summer? Then she would move in with us in the Fall. Then she said it would only be into she goes into the Navy.

Yeah like OSD was supposed to go into the Army. Went to some ceremony and everything and did not join.

Like SS was supposed to go into the Marines and never did.

Yeah, um no.

DH knows that she can't live with us. His knee jerk reaction is to say yes and not really THINK about all it entails.

My answer is no and will always be no unless she was in some serious danger.

All of my feelings aside about how I feel about YSD, it just wouldnt work.

We would have to deal with BM more. No thanks.
The other skids would start to come around more and think our house is the new place to be. No.
Its peaceful in our house. No drama. No chaos. Adding another person will be all of that at a minimum.
DH would never parent. It would all fall on me.
I wouldnt have any privacy.
I wouldnt feel comfortable in my own home.
I dont think our marriage is strong enough to survive DH's little princess living with us.

YSD does this every once in awhile. Gets in fight with BM. Wants to move in with us. Threatens it to BM. BM tells her DH won't take her in. (True but BM says it to be spiteful). Whine bitch moan complain.

Hopefully this conversation is over. DH was acting a tad pissy last night before bed. I know its because of the situation. If things are even a little out of whack, he cant handle it.

Craigslist Scammer

We are getting rid of our bedframe. Too large for our room. Im going to do a DIY headboard.

Anyways, I post it on CL. Get a couple of emails. Talk to this one person. Told him someone else was supposed to get it but if they fall through I will contact him. So they fell through. The guy and I are corresponding via email.

I tell him to text me when he is on his way so I can give him my address. Told him to bring the money and have the EXACT change. Well he emails me and asks for my address and I give it to him. I'm thinking he probably didnt see my email that I just sent him. (they were close in time).

Guy shows up. Only has big bills. I'm like W.T.F. I told you at least 2 times in emails to bring exact change.

He keeps saying him and his girl are splitting the cost of the bed, he needs to get his change and blah blah blah and then says something about how he needs his change to get some weed. Ummm okay dude.

So he leaves saying he is going to get change and then he never comes back.

I feel like he was up to something.

Sees my email (CL email but has my name on it) is a girl name and I think he was trying to scam me or something. DH is a big guy, he has street prescence and I think this guy picked up on that.

Normally we dont have to do CL business in our house, but with the frame being so big we had no other choice.

It defintely left me feeling a little odd and cautious.

Everyone have a great day! Gonna check back in later today