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Submitted by shellbell on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 11:48am

Saturday night i had a message on my myspace asking me if i was shellbell from spfld,il i went ahead and responded "yes". Then I decide to see who the person was all it had was the first name, no picture i figured it was a girl i went to high school with as i don't know many people with that name. I went to her page it wasn't private (mine is) and couldn't figure out who she was it listed her living in MO and her birth place KS. Red flags waving now because my bd's dad has lived in both those places he has only met my daughter once when she was 3 she is now 7 he hasn't been in contact in 5 years so this is crazy. i look at the mystery woman's friend list and low and behold she is friends with bd's uncle OMG why is she looking for me? I figured since i responded to her first message she would respond back right? nope so yesterday I sent her a message "okay you found me, now what?" her response "do you know who this might be?" well duh so i replied with "i'm guessing bd's girlfriend" she hasn't replied yet I just don't know what I'm supposed to do with this

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Submitted by BMJen on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 11:55am

him develope a relationship with his daughter? I hope that's what it's all about........and I hope if it is that this woman is awesome, and can really slap some change into your x. Though, take it from someone who knows, usually if you are going to date Mr. Stupid you come into the game being Mrs. Stupid right out of the gate.

~All you need is Faith, Trust, and a little bit of Pixie Dust~

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Submitted by shellbell on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 12:00pm

I'm pretty sure she is the same one he has been dating since right after we split which was when I was pregnant (my daughter was born august of 2001). He actually got her pregnant while I was still pregnant. Their daughter is only 7 months younger than mine. *Life is full of hard things its not always fair but we do have a choice to make things better instead of worse*

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Submitted by BMJen on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 12:02pm

Blow my WHOLE theory out of the water why don't ya! Wink

~All you need is Faith, Trust, and a little bit of Pixie Dust~

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Submitted by Sia on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 12:02pm

i was gonna post that, but I figured mabe this was a "new" one...... LOL

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Submitted by shellbell on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 12:09pm

Sorry I guess I should have said all that before. See that's why this whole thing is so strange. he hasn't been in her life except for the ONE time he met her she doesn't even ask about him so why now is he/she even bothering? Plus she had to really look for me there are a lot of people with my name (I've looked) I'm just thankful my profile is private. *Life is full of hard things its not always fair but we do have a choice to make things better instead of worse*

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Submitted by shellbell on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 1:47pm

I didn't think of that. I have never told my daughter that he has another daughter i never felt like there was a point she never saw him so she would probably never see the daughter. This crap is making the bm bullsh*t seem like a piece of cake. *Life is full of hard things its not always fair but we do have a choice to make things better instead of worse*

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Submitted by shellbell on Wed, 07/08/2009 - 9:29pm

OMG its not the girlfriend its HIM. i got a response asking how my daughter is i replied with "i'm confused on why you are contacting me" keep in mind i thought it was the girlfriend because its her myspace account untill i get the reply of "why did you stop calling and change your number and move i've been sending stuff in the mail and it all comes back i called every (last name) in the phone book trying to find you. The hell he did!!! I am sooooo pissed right now (deep breathe) I didn't move until 2 years ago my phone number has been the same from 2002 untill 1 year ago my parents have had the same phone number since i was 16 i'm almost 30 they still have the same address they have had since then my mother too plus if he really called all the people with my last name he would have found ALL of my family and someone would have told me I don't know who he's trying to kid. i'll see what happens my response to his stupid fake one was my phone number but what do you know it hasn't rang yet. *Life is full of hard things its not always fair but we do have a choice to make things better instead of worse*

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Submitted by BMJen on Thu, 07/09/2009 - 9:57am

Keep updating when something happens. I'm interested to see how the loser tries to come down off the ledge that he climbed himself onto.

~All you need is Faith, Trust, and a little bit of Pixie Dust~

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Submitted by shellbell on Thu, 07/09/2009 - 10:00pm

He actually called me today I was VERY suprised apparently he was sending my daughters birthday presents and x-mas presents to someone else and they kept coming back to him. he also broke his phone and lost my phone number anyway we talked for a while he even appologized. I always thought it was strange that he just stopped calling because he seemed like he wanted to be involved with dd. I asked her if she wanted to talk to him and she actually did and she was smiling the whole time so I guess we will see how it goes I still haven't told dd about her "sister" I'm not quite sure how I'm going to handle that one yet. She needs to get to know her dad a little better first before I spring that on her I think. I hope there isn't anymore drama for awhile at least until tomorrow when bm comes to pick up the skids. *Life is full of hard things its not always fair but we do have a choice to make things better instead of worse*