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Vacation Drama

acn's picture

We are supposed to go to Costa Rica in July for a friend's wedding. DH said that he wanted to take the boys to make it our annual "family"vacation. Do whatever, I don't care one way or another. One thing I said is that he better start communicating with their mother the dates, and also she needs to be there or give a notarized consent for them to get passports and also a consent form for them to get out of the country. This conversation took place in late February early march. I never asked what happened because "not my kids, not my problem" but apparently my husband had just sat on his ass and done nothing.

We had to go and apply for a passport for our son and I guess he realized that he needs to talk to the mother of his older children. So he sent an email to which she hasn't responded. (lately she has given him the silent treatment on all emails sent). Again not my problem - however it becomes my problem when the block of rooms reserved for the wedding with 30% discount is released this Friday( the discount is only valid with prepayment). What if she doesn't respond? I am going forward making a reservation for ONE room and too bad so sad.....What would you do????

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BMJen's picture

I would do exactaly what you are doing. You can't afford to just throw money away on BM's whim. If she doesn't respond there's nothing you can do about it.........

stormabruin's picture

That is what I would do. If he can't make the effort to do what needs to be done in order to take his boys, they don't go. I'd let it fall on him if he wants to try to get it done in a hurry. If he can get it done, good for him. If he can't, his boys lose out.

Pantera's picture

Since BM isn't answering her emails, DH should call her. If not, I agree, sorry bout his luck.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

NachoMama's picture

Too bad so sad! (This sounds like my DH and PsychoSponge...they are so immature when it comes to talking to each other I want to smack them both!!!) The skids would just have to stay if that's the way she was going to act about it.

****I can do bad all by myself****