I agree with crayon, revenge IS juvenile...

But I am childish as hell!!! So OH WELL!!

I probably wouldn't care too much about the OW, but DH... Oh he would be in for it somehow!!

::whispers::

Once, when I was pregnant and DH and I got into a REALLY HUGE fight, I threw all his shit out on the lawn of our townhouse, called his best friend and told him to come pick up DH's crap (DH had left) and told the neighbors if they could fit it they could have it. TRUE STORY!!

A life well lived is the best revenge.

My husband knows better than to cheat. He knows no other woman in her right mind would put up with SS very long so he's better off keeping it in his pants. Besides he knows I wouldn't go for revenge but I wouldn't take ownership of any of his bills either and he'd be sleeping in the parking lot next to his son because he can't afford to cheat.

Wow, your friend actually did that?! Did they learn that from this?

http://www.snopes.com/love/revenge/shrimp.asp

I had one friend who caught her boyfriend cheating because she went to his house one morning before work and when she was walking past his car, she saw a woman's purse on the seat. She looked in it and discovered it was his ex- on again off again girlfriend. She stole the purse, well, more like borrowed it. Took it home and did all sorts of horrendous stuff to her makeup. My fave and the most memorable was, she put jalapeno juice in her mascara and visine. oh my goodness, I realized then and there that I never wanted to get on this lady's badside.

:jawdrop: of all the......

The best revenge is letting them have "them".

Besides in my case it was also the littlest addition to MY family

The grass isn't always greener; rather it's a nice shade of brown and I'm the biotch on the other side with gasoline and matches

}:) Hey Wife, I'm a be a butthead--would it be.................free? I know I know not nice but the devil made me do it

I took our house fund and ran over his computer. But, then again, if exFH hadn't cheated, I never would have come to be on ST. So, while I wish I hadn't had to deal with all of that, I'm happy to have made my friends from here. SW, CG, Sia, Zen, Sunshine, Dawn, and Admin in person and others not in person. I'd say I traded up in that regard. And, knowing that he has to deal with his CS and the psycho and I don't makes me smile, too.

I....well....cried.

I begged and pleaded to get him to see what a huge mistake he was making tossing me, the boys, and a nuclear family for BD4.

I watched, I waited, desperately seeking out a small sign the man I knew, loved, married, wanted to grow old with was still inside him somewhere...the man I trusted, respected, loved beyond what I now know is all reason.

I hoped, I prayed, I cried a lot more. I went through the motions. I pretended to believe everything was going to be ok.

Well I'm still doing that.

I dreamed...

Bad dreams. Still do, but they are changing and more about me moving forward than what they did to hurt me.

I asked him one more time to reconsider.

He moved out and on with her.

I'm still here...still working toward letting the dreams go. Still trying to envision a happy life without him in it.

And trying to understand that it's not personal, that it's about his vulnerabilities, his insecurities, his inabilities...

And not at all about me.