WTF is wrong with people. I know I find myself asking this question a lot, but seriously.... what is wrong with people?

Here DH and I are raising SD21s children, and their parents have the nerve to get shitty b/c I woke them up this morning? Really? You CAN'T be serious, can you? Wow! Takes nerve, real nerve!

Most of you are aware that we've had SD21s children for a week now. Two yrs and 2mos. We had to take little girl (2) to the doc yesterday b/c of strange behavior she was having by not sleeping, etc. From what we described to doc, she said the little girl is having night terrors, likely from being abused, and seperation anxiety. I am not surprised. Poor little girl. The baby is 2mos, so he's up about every 4hrs to eat, etc.; but little girl wakes up about every hour screaming relentlessly, and can't be consoled. Doc says not really much you can do about it, it will run it's course. I'm calling in some favors next week and getting her into an old family friend, who is a psychiatrist. He works with small children. She/we can't keep going on like this.

Anywho, the court ordered the parents to provide us with anything the children should need. The first day we had them, they brought over stuff, the next several days, it was a fight. Which is the case today. We were also ordered to allow them visitation. We have, much to my chigrin. I've cooperated, probably a little too much. So, they've only called us twice to see the kids. The first time, the children's father wanted to "make up" etc. DH accepted his olive branch. I did not, for this very reason. I wasn't rude to him, just holding my cards close, and I needed more time to get over things. I would've come around in my own time. Now, I doubt I ever will.

They sent DH a text Wednesday which included their work schedule, so that we could work out a visitation schedule. We decided Tuesday and Thursday nights. Tuesday went fine, Thursday, DH had to umpire a few games, so I told him no way would I allow them to come to the house while he wasn't there. Ya know? So, we explained and told them we'd work around their schedule for Friday and poss Saturday since we had to cancel Thursday. So, they got off work at 8pm yesterday. We needed diapers and some clothing and sent them a text and tried calling multiple times to tell them that they could come to visit for a bit when they got off, and drop off needed items. They never called/text back.

So, DH and I BOTH have tried calling them multiple times this AM to set a visitation schedule for today. We are trying to make weekend plans, etc. No answers to calls/texts. It was pissin me off, so I sent a text that read:
Me: your avoidance is starting to piss me off
Them: your calling is pissing me off
Me: Really? NICE!
Me: your uncooperation won't bode well for you

Then the arsehole calls me and says:
Him: WTF is your problem?
ME: really? Seriously? We've been trying to get a hold of you since yesterday...
Him: over diapers????? (snotty tone)
me: yeah, and over visitation
him: we've already worked that out, tuesday & Thursdays
ME: (fuming at this point).... FINE! You know what, you go back to sleep and enjoy your sleep as I have been up with YOUR children all night! Then I hung up.

So then I sent another text that read:
"you are their parents and YOU should be providing what they need, and YES, that INCLUDES diapers!" "you know what, I'm done. We wont call you anymore for anything, if you desire visitation, YOU will have to make those arrangements!"

Havent' heard anything more. I swear some freakin people really have a set, don't they?
I mean, in my thinking, if I had my children taken away, I would be at your beck and call. Apologizing all over the place for your inconvenience, etc. Offering to mow your lawn, clean your pool, wash your cars, etc....whatever! Not them! I would even be offering to sleep on your couch to get up with the children at night if that's what it took! Not these assholes!
GEEZ! Calgon, take me away!