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Submitted by June on Thu, 07/08/2010 - 5:50pm

Well here it is.... The last day of peace and quiet for 10 days. My two ss's are coming over tomorrow to stay with me and DH for 10 days straight as BM is on vacation. As I posted in a previous blog, this feels like more of an invonvience to me then my DH bc he is at work all the time. I know this is horrible to feel this way. I really want to be able to enjoy their company. It's just that you get into your own routine and now that they will be here everything is going to be different. When I wake up for work my ss13 will be up with the tv blairing in the living room bc he dosent sleep late at all When I get home From a long day at work both ss will be here, no relax time for me. I'll have to cook more food pick up more messes have less relax time and way less time with my DH. My DH and I go to bed at the same time and talk about our days, I know he will stay up with the kids and I'll be going to bed alone. After a long day of work if I'm not going out the first thing I love to do is put on my lounge clothes and take off my fricken bra.. Well not next week when my ss are here I won't. Can't go w/o a bra with teenage boys and their friends in the house so I guess I'll be uncomfortable in my own house until I go to bed. Oh Lordy Lordy give me strength to not be a winey bitch and help me to try and find something positive out of this. Somehow I think I'll be on here allot over the next 10 days. LOL

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Submitted by 1day@atime on Thu, 07/08/2010 - 6:53pm

Awww, good luck in readjusting. I'm in the opposite position, SS10 is gone until the next 7 weeks (sorry, didn't mean to rub it in)

Stay strong!

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Submitted by June on Thu, 07/08/2010 - 7:55pm

That's okay, enjoy your time!! I would prob. Shit my pants if I ever had that long w/o my ss's. LOL.

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Submitted by 1day@atime on Thu, 07/08/2010 - 8:01pm

His Mom lives out of state, so we have to do it this way. He's with us the majority of the time. I wish it could be more sporadic because I think I'd be less stresed if I had more frequent, shorter breaks, than one big tease of a break! lol.

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Submitted by lostandconfusedsm on Thu, 07/08/2010 - 11:45pm

I am right there with you. DH just picked up SS12 and we will have him for the next 2 weeks. Thankfully DH is on vacation for the first week and the second week... I will just figure that out when it happens. I am not used to worrying about closing the door when I change and other stuff like that. Since I don't have to the rest of the time. I really hope he does not have his cell phone with him. That always adds to the drama.