met man that pursured me, liked him, after 2wks, moved in to another house that his father lived in to enable him to ensure, lived there alone with thought of any family member being able to visit, all went well until 2yrs later when finances proved problematic, moved into his trailer during winter months due to cash on demnand for heat,stayed for approx. 2yrs, trying to adjust, even gotten propsed, and accepted, to no avail no ring, during that timne,,daughter was given prior trailer, which I had dwelled in th fathers home, now with a total of 6yrs comein in may allows me to accept that I feel for me that she has severed other opption for me to leave from her and travel outward,meaning the monies that was to be alloted, which is now critically needed where I am for this to cause conflict, Was when so much monies were not problematic,andnow financially would now be a problem to leave,I love this man more than I have ever had to learn what love truly was,do I keep me, or give him him, do to me not knowing how to take care of a grown feamale of 22, which I raised 5 with youngest being 23 with no any long range prodding..HELP